Cookie cutter submissive boys
As I contemplate adding content to this site, covering more in depth information on my favorite fetishes, such as foot and shoe, smoking, tease and denial, enforced chastity… a thought hit Me that I felt obligated to comment on. Especially considering how many “would be callers” and other phone dommes read this journal.
Snide comments are often made in regards to the “Insta-Dommes” that are a direct result of phone sex operators pretending to know more than they really do about the BDSM lifestyle. With the popularity of Adult content on the Internet, there are a lot of what I like to call ‘posers’, or people that only pretend to live the BDSM lifestyle. I’m not being judgmental (although I might like to be)… I’m simply stating a well known fact.
What occurred to Me today is that I wonder how many people realize that for every ‘Insta-Domme’ out there, there must be at least a few ‘insta-subs’. This comes to mind due to a few rather short calls I’ve received lately… you know, the totally pathetic wannabe slave that calls Me for tease and denial, expecting this to happen within their “big spender” time limit of three minutes. (Can you say….. SPARE ME?)
Effective tease and denial requires that I first gain knowledge of your particular fetishes. Through conversation, I learn what buttons to push to make you the subservient little panting slut that I want you to be. These ‘insta-subs’ are apparently under the false impression that a Domme is also a Psychic, instantly aware of exactly what turns him into that little cuckold or sissy boy that we enjoy tormenting so.
While I must admit that most humans weighed down by the burden of carrying around a penis are in fact pretty easy to figure out and manipulate, with a lot of common testosterone driven behaviors… NOT all boys are the same. Nor are all Dommes!
I suppose that if I were one of the Insta-Dommes that I spoke of earlier, I would just pretend that you’re a sub, and I’m a domme, and all the same things that worked with My last caller will work with you too. I’d throw in a little nasty yelling and humiliation for kicks, and demand that you tribute Me or be blocked.
LOL. Any boy that’s called Me even ONE time knows that is NOT how I handle your phone domme training. I don’t yell. Why? I don’t NEED to yell. I dominate you through identifying your weaknesses… and exploiting them. Yelling, in my opinion, is for those that don’t have a true understanding of how Dominance works.
The other side of this issue is the insta-sub. They have no understanding of what it’s like to feel fulfilled by giving pleasure. A true submissive will eagerly sacrifice their own pleasure to provide for their chosen Dominant. Ideally, the Domme in this situation has a true understanding of the sub, and what his pleasure points are, and includes this in the session (when appropriate of course… denial is so very yummy, and such a wonderful training tool).
Alas, I’m stuck once again in reality, and unfortunately, most of what I deal with on My phone lines is simply fantasy. All’s I’m asking is that you boy sluts at least make the fantasies “lifestyle accurate”. Is that TOO MUCH TO ASK?
LOL. How’s that for ‘stream of consciousness’ writing style. Can’t copy that! *wicked grins n’ giggles*
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I agree there are a lot of “insta subs” and for the most part the phone is just that fantasy. But it would be nice like you said if they could keep it “lifestyle accurate” but like the insta dommes the insta subs really do not understand BDSM or D/s realtionships, they should at least try and read up on the topics they enjoy talking about. It would make their phone fantasy go a lot better.
Thank you Princess Mandy! ROFL OMG, sometimes I wonder if I’m the only one that sees these things… I knew you’d understand, though!
It’s so wonderful having a place like this to vent!